Author: meerkatcheesephobos55464

  • Jesus Death on Calvery

               Jesus’ death on Calvery is the culminating event of the Jewish religion, even if they don’t admit recognizing it as such.  Many Jewish Rabbis, as I understand, rarely speak of one chapter of the book of the prophet Isaiah because it so clearly identifies Christ by how badly he is treated and related to by people of his time. He is the Messiahs they have spent their whole history preparing for.  The fact is some books in the bible said that the God of the Jews would one day be great among the gentiles, and the relegation of Jews to just another race among the world instead of the “chosen” people rubbed them the wrong way.  But the fact that this happened was the fault of the Jews not recognizing Him when He came and venerating Him as they should have.

              Jesus’ death is what made restitution to God for all of mankind for the offense of the original sin!

  • Holy Thursday the Last Supper

              Much is not made clear when it comes to the Holy sacrifice of the mass in most non-traditional (those that do not offer the holy sacrifice of the mass in Latin) parishes, with regard to Holy Thursday, Good Friday and the Ascension. For an even deeper understanding I would suggest reading Dr. Scott Hahn’s book The Lamb’s Supper: The Mass as Heaven on Earth.

              In the last supper, Jesus Christ offers himself as a sacrifice to God. Much is made of the fact that His death on Calvary was a sacrifice offered to make amends for Adam and Eve’s original sin which damaged the soul’s of all their descendants by giving them the knowledge of evil by eating of the fruit of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil (they already had the knowledge of good, which was the only knowledge they had living in paradise).  But know matter how bloody the death of anyone, it is not a sacrifice unless it is offered as such.  This is what Christ did at the last supper, He offered himself as a sacrifice for the many for the forgiveness of sins, and those words are repeated in every mass during the consecration which once again receives its efficacy being the self-same sacrifice as offered on Calvary.   

  • Books on Grace

    One subject forgot in my listing of good books to read was the subject of Grace. The best book I have found so far on Grace is the book “The Catholic Doctrine of Grace” by G.H. Joyce, S.J. It was Published by the Newman Press in Westminster, Maryland in 1950.

    Nihil Obstat: J. Jarvis

                           Censor Deputatus

    Imprimatur: Francisous

                           Epus Menevensis

    But for a more technical treatment on the subject of grace see “Grace: Actual and Habitual” by R. Rev. Msgr. Joseph Pohle, Ph.D., D.D.

    ASIN ‏ : ‎ B003J9DR6I

    Publisher ‏ : ‎ B. Herder Book Co; Sixteenth Printing edition (January 1, 1955)

    Nihil Obstat: Sti. Ludovici, die 6 Dec., 1928

                         H. Hussmann

                         Censor Deputatus

    Imprimatur: Sti. Ludovici, die 7 Dec., 1928

                       + Joannes J. Glennon,                   

    Archiepiscopus

  • Books on the End Times – Eschatology

    The first book is one based on a series of lectures and is recommended by Saint Therese of Lisieux who said “Reading this book was one of the greatest graces of my life.” The name of the book is “The End of the Present World and the Mysteries of the Future Life” by Father Charles Arminjon.

    ASIN ‏ : ‎ 1933184388

    Publisher ‏ : ‎ Sophia Institute Press (January 26, 2009)

    Paperback ‏ : ‎ 336 pages

    ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 9781933184388

    ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1933184388              

    The next book is “The Apocalypse Explained” by H.M. Feret. O.p.

    ASIN ‏ : ‎ B000GARCZ0

    Publisher ‏ : ‎ Catholic Media Apostolate; First Edition (January 1, 1958)

    ISBN ‏ : ‎0-912141-69-7

    Hardcover ‏ : ‎ 273 pages

    Nihil obstat: Hubertus Richards, S.T.L., L.S.S.

                        Censor deputatus

    Imprimatur: E. Morrogh Bernard

                       Vic. Gen.

    Westmonasterii. Die 15a Martii, 1958

    The last book is technical at a high level and is called “Eschatology or The Catholic Doctrine of the Last Things: A dogmatic Treatise” by Rt. Rev. Msgr. Joseph Pohle, Ph.D., D.D.  the identification is for a newer reprint and the Nihil Obstat and Imprimatur are from my 1929 Sixth Edition from the B. Herder Book Company, St. Louis, Mo.

    Publisher ‏ : ‎ Legare Street Press (September 9, 2021)

    Hardcover ‏ : ‎ 182 pages

    ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 101356202X

    ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1013562020

    Nihil obstat: Sti. Ludovici, die 2, Maii, 1929.

                        Joannes Rothensteiner,

                        Censor Librorum

    Imprimatur: Sti. Ludovici, die 3, Maii, 1929.

                       +Joannes J. Glennon

                         Archiepiscopus

  • Books Considered Catholic Classics

    Not sure if some of these classics in the original language have approbations but the only ones that I have that do are The imitation of Christ, The Summa Theologica, The Catholic Controversies, and The Soul of the Apostolate.  The others are either translations by well known catholic writers of the early 20th century (in the case of St. Augustine’s Confessions), a well-respected academic institution (in the case of Bossuet’s Discourse on Universal History) or the Pontifical Institute of Mediaeval Studies in Canada (In the Case of Peter Lombard’s The Sentences). 

    “The imitation of Christ: Translated by Ronald Knox and Michael Oakley”

    Publisher ‏ : ‎ Ignatius Press (April 18, 2019)

    ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1586171313

    ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-158617131

    Nihil Obstat: Joannes M.T Burton, D.D., L.S.S.

                            Censor Librorum

    Imprimatur: E. Morrogh Bernard

                           Vicarica Generelis

    Westmonasterii: Die XVIII Septembris MCMLIX

    “Summa Theologica” (authored by St. Thomas Aquinas in Latin) First complete American Edition in Three Volumes Literally Translated by Fathers of the English Dominican Province Published by Benzinger Brothers, Inc. Copyright 1947. This is touted to be one of the best English translations of this work.

    ASIN ‏ : ‎ B001B1GKVA

    Publisher ‏ : ‎ Benziger Brothers, Inc; First American Edition (January 1, 1947)

    Nihil Obstat: Rt. Rev. Msgr.John M. Fearns, S.T.D.

                         Censor Librorum

    Imprimatur: Francis Cardinal Spellman,

                       Archbishop of New York

    New York, August 14, 1946

    Approbatio Ordinis Pro Versione Anglica

    Nihil Obstat: F. Raphael Mos, O.P. S.T.L.

                         Leo Moore, O.P., S.T.L.

    Imprimatur: F. Beda Jarrett, O.P., S.T.L., A.M.

                       Prior Provincialis Anglia

    In Festo Pentecostes, 1920

    The next set of classics are a 4 volume set called “The Sentences” by Bishop Peter Lombard and were used to train priests for a few centuries in the middle ages. This set was translated from the Latin by Giulio Silano

    The Sentences Book 1: The Mystery of the Trinity

    Publisher ‏ : ‎ PIMS; First in English edition (January 1, 2007)

    Language ‏ : ‎ English

    Paperback ‏ : ‎ 336 pages

    ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 9780888442925

    ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0888442925

    The Sentences Book 2: On Creation

    Publisher ‏ : ‎ PIMS; 2nd ed. edition (January 1, 2008)

    Language ‏ : ‎ English

    Paperback ‏ : ‎ 282 pages

    ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0888442939

    ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0888442932

    The Sentences Book 3: On the Incarnation of the Word

    Publisher ‏ : ‎ PIMS (November 1, 2008)

    Language ‏ : ‎ English

    Paperback ‏ : ‎ 238 pages

    ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0888442955

    ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0888442956

    The Sentences Book 4: On the Doctrine of Signs

    ASIN ‏ : ‎ 0888442963

    Publisher ‏ : ‎ PIMS; 4th ed. edition (September 1, 2010)

    Language ‏ : ‎ English

    Paperback ‏ : ‎ 336 pages

    ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 9780888442963

    ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0888442963

    “The Catholic Controversy: St. Frances de Sales Defense of the Faith” by St. Francis de Sales is as I understand a compilation of pamphlets which the saint used to convert a whole protestant section of France back to Catholicism. This book is, as I understand, translated from the French.

    Publisher ‏ : ‎ Tan Books (January 1, 1986)

    Language ‏ : ‎ English

    Paperback ‏ : ‎ 376 pages

    ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0895553872

    ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0895553874

    Library of Congress Catalog Card No. 89-52138

    There are more than one translation of “The Confessions of St. Augustine” but the most informative in my opinion is F. J. Sheed’s translations because he gives a forward plus a note of explanation on who the Manichees were. It is available on amazon.

    ASIN ‏ : ‎ B00221WB3Y

    Publisher ‏ : ‎ Sheed & Ward (January 1, 1942)

    Language ‏ : ‎ English

    Hardcover ‏ : ‎ 208 pages           

    The next book is about apostolates and St. Pius X said he read it many nights before bed. The book is entitled “Soul of the Apostolate” by Dom Jean-Baptiste Chautard, O.C.S.O.

    ASIN ‏ : ‎ 0895550318

    Publisher ‏ : ‎ TAN Books (January 1, 1946)

    Language ‏ : ‎ English

    Paperback ‏ : ‎ 320 pages

    ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 9780895550316

    ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-089555031

    Nihil Obstat: M. Maurice Molloy, O.C.S.O.

                        M. Alberic Wulf, O.C.S.O.

    Imprimi Potest: M. Fredericus Dunne, O.C.S.O.

                             Abbas B.M. de Gethsemani

    Imprimatur: +Joannes A. Floersh, D.D.

                         Archiepiscopus Ludovicopolitanus

                         Die 18a Septembris, 1946

    The last book is the “Discourse on Universal History” by Jacques-Benigne Bossuet. It follows history with and emphasis on how it occurred with regard to the Jewish and Catholic religions up to its time.

    Publisher ‏ : ‎ Univ of Chicago Pr; First Thus edition (February 1, 1976)

    Language ‏ : ‎ English

    Hardcover ‏ : ‎ 376 pages

    ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0226067084

    ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0226067087

  • Book on the Miraculous Medal

    The temptation of many to become superstitious about helpful sacramentals like this forces me to be very cautious with regard to reading material. This small pamphlet carries a Nihil Obstat approbation and is “The Central Association of the Miraculous Medal Membership Booklet.”   It can be reached at

    475 E. Chelten Avenue Philadelphia, PA 19144, to obtain a booklet

    Nihil Obstat: James A. McGarth

                          Censor Librorum

    John Cardinal Krol

    Archiepiscopus Philadelphiensis

    Die 5 Aprilis 1973

  • The People Who go to Hell Will Create its Horrors, not God.

             This is a reposting of one of my earlier blogs to emphasize my opinion that, though hell exists, and in my opinion, possibly a lot more horrible than what Christ describes (Mark 9:47-49), is not created by God but by the depravity of its inhabitants with their broken nature, which could only be repaired by the reception of Sanctifying Grace at baptism and keeping it until death. I am posting it again because it took me a lot of my life asking and seeking (Matt 7:7) why an all-good God would create hell. Heaven is a place for those who love one another and want to follow Gods will and love one another on their own free will. Those who don’t wish to love one another, above all else (i.e. want God’s will) will go to a place where they can do what they want.  Unfortunately, there will be others of the same mind there, which “what they want” will be evil. Neither in heaven or hell does God force anything, those in that place make it what it is – a place of endless love or a place of endless selfishness.

            In my second blog I posited that those in hell would create it themselves by their disobedient nature. I also tried to show how this is not an impossible outcome by the example of NAZI Germany and how it became, basically, a hell on Earth. Similarly, the godless communist philosophy of the former Soviet Union turned Russia in a hell on Earth. But those not acquainted with the Bible will say, God’s book, the Bible, never says anything close to: God will let the people He judges, as not suitable for heaven, create hell. Some will say, in fact, the Bible never even implies it. To that I would say take a look at Romans 1:16-32. They are as follows (with commentary after each verse or group of related verses).
             Verse 16:
    “For I am not ashamed of the gospel. For it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth, to the Jew first, and to the Greek.”
    Commentary: this indicates that what follows is for eternal salvation of all that believe – both Jew and gentile.
             Verse 17:
    “For the justice of God is revealed therein, from faith unto faiths it is written: The just man liveth by faith”
    Commentary: God’s justice is meted out, in the next world, in its fullness, but as we saw in my second blog, the lesson, as to what results in not following God’s law, is seen to be true in this world, so that it can be extrapolated as a natural result, if the behavior discussed is carried into the next world. In other words, God lets us see, in this world, that what he says is true for human nature in general and, though Catholics know God is incapable of lying, so that those reading the gospels will know what He says is true.
            Verse 18:
    “For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and injustice of those men that detain the truth of God in injustice:”
    Commentary: It does not say God’s wrath is visited on man from heaven, it says “the wrath of God is revealed from heaven.” I see this as meaning God built his eternal punishment into man’s choice to eat of the tree of good and evil in the garden of Eden. His and her pride in thinking that they could understand things better than God from the knowledge they gained would be their downfall. The Truth (John 15:6), God’s Word (John 1:1) – Jesus Christ who is synonymous with the example of his life, is the only way man has to keep from destroying himself, by creating his own eternal torment in hell. Those that hold themselves to the Truth and are loyal to the Truth are kind to each other, loyal to one another and God and show mercy as God shows mercy and thereby follow the Path and maintain the heaven established by the Truth. In heaven there is no need for police because each person polices his or her self. In hell there can be no effective police because everyone is corrupt, without fidelity to the law, without affection for their fellow man and without mercy for anyone.
           Verse 19 and 20:
    “Because that which is known of God is manifest in them. For God hath manifested it unto them.”
    “For the invisible things of him, from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made; his eternal power also, and divinity: so that they are inexcusable.”
    Commentary: As is pointed out in books such as C.S. Lewis’ Book Mere Christianity, God’s moral law, our sensitivity to injustice, the wrongness of going against the commandments (invisible to the eye) is written on our hearts (we know intuitively). We also have the reasoned facts that 1) God created us from nothingness 2) that He is all mighty and that 3) the success/stability of a society following his “rules” is the reasoned result of Him being all knowing and all good and in addition to “writing it on our hearts” revealed it in the Bible.       
           Verses 21-23:
    “Because that, when they knew God, they have not glorified him as God, or given thanks; but became vain in their thoughts and their foolish heart was darkened.”
    “For profession themselves to be wise, they became fools.”
    “And they changed the glory of the incorruptible God into the likeness of the image of corruptible man, and of birds, and of four footed beasts, and of creeping things.”
    Commentary: see the truth of this in Luther’s revolt against the Catholic Church and the wars it spawned and the thousands of martyrs that were killed because of accusations of disloyalty when certain countries went protestant. The stealing of cathedrals and universities built by the Catholic Church was also a result of the revolt. We also see the truth of this from the results of the writings of Voltaire and Rousseau which spawned the bloody the French Revolution and the Masonic order which arguably has done much to destabilize the Catholic Church as well as foment revolutions in Mexico etc.
             Verse 24:
    “Wherefore God gave them up to the desires of their hearts unto uncleanness, to dishonor their own bodies among themselves.”
    Commentary: Read closely in the verse above that “. . .God GAVE them up to the DESIRES OF THEIR HEART” [emphasis mine]. People who are hellbent on uncleanness and dishonoring their own, bodies God let them have their wishes, He did not force it on them. Hell is created by the people that will be there, NOT BY GOD!!!. As one example we see those who do not accept God as creating them “male and female” (Genesis 1:27) and because of this, these young girls and young women are being cheated out of their self-worth and scholarships in things like swimming competitions by transgender athletes. They are discriminating again against women by forcing them to compete against biological men.
             Verse 25:
    “Who changed the truth of God into a lie; and worship and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen.”
    The creature in this context is clearly the devil. Because the devil is an angelic intellect and those in hell will be forced to worship him due to his cunning and lack of Gods push back in hell because all there, by definition, have rejecting God. Because those in hell chose to reject God in worldly life he is giving them all their wish. The lack of the love of God  – the rejection of God, and by extension His precepts, is the cause of hell.
            Verse 26 [and foot note  for this verse from the TAN edition of the Douay-Rheims Bible]:
    “For this cause God delivered them up to shameful affections. For their women have changed the natural use into that use which is against nature.”
    [Footnote – “God delivered them up” Not by being author of their sins, but by withdrawing his grace, and so permitting them, in punishment of their pride, to fall into those shameful sins.]

    Commentary: These sins like abortion (murder destroying possible citizens of heaven) and against the natural law seen in the attraction of man to woman and stated as the first command by God after creation (Genesis 1:28 “Increase and multiply, and fill the earth, and subdue it. . .”), and the use of contraceptives.
             Verse 27:
    “And, in like manner, the men also, leaving the natural use of the women, have burned in their lusts one towards another, men with men working that which is filthy, and receiving in themselves the recompense which was due to their error.”
    Commentary: The natural “use” of women is to work with God to produce possible citizens of heaven – children. Man to man sex cannot produce children and is for that reason is unnatural. Man to man attraction cannot necessarily be prevented, and is not in itself evil or bad, but the man-to-man interaction as with premarital heterosexual sex before marriage is something that will create hell. The thing in this life that they are most susceptible to is “. . .receiving in themselves the recompense which was due to their error.”  We can see from the CDC that this “recompense” can be, at least partially, Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) of not only HIV but also Syphilis and gonorrhea. There is also evidence that psychological anomalies seem to be connected to those engaged in same sex activities (for some information see the article explored in the abstract https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S135311319890133X, for an actual internet posted article more in depth mentioning possible secular remedies see https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2018.01506/full  )  
            Verses 28-31:

    “And as they liked not to have God in their knowledge, God delivered them up to a reprobate sense, to do those things which are not convenient;”

    “Being filled with all iniquity, malice, fornication, avarice, wickedness, full of envy, murder, contention, deceit, malignity, whisperers,”

    “Detractors, hateful to God, contumelious, proud, haughty, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,”

    “Foolish, dissolute, without affection, without fidelity, without mercy.” 
    Commentary: Those in hell (this group also, as in above cases, include those who reject God on Earth and is essentially a warning to those to change their ways to save themselves not only on Earth but in the next life) “liked to not have God in their knowledge,” which is to say they did not want to think about God and by extension what He labeled as right and wrong. In delivering them up to a reprobate state He let them be and do what they wanted. “Inventors of evil things” includes things like novel torture, eliciting extreme fear, attacking a country in the vanity of national pride etc. to be “without affection” is to be without charity or love. To be “without fidelity” is to have loyalty to nobody and basically creates a world where nobody can trust anybody else. Finally, to be “without mercy” is, for example, to be able to torture or assault someone either sexually, physically, emotionally or mentally without pity or respite simply for one’s own pleasure or entertainment.
           Verse 32:

    “Who, having known the justice of God, did not understand that they who do such things, are worthy of death; and not only they that do them, but they also that consent to them that do them.”
    Commentary: This is why those that do not positively follow the commandments and hold others in their care or authoritative influence such as children, family, employees or political constituents are condemned also. If you do not, in justice, stop evil you cannot be expected to be spared it. There is an adage that “silence implies consent” but whether or not you are in authority if you do not stop evil or say something about it (i.e., stay silent), you allow it, and in essence consent to evil and its consequence of hurting others. In addition, you will likely, given enough time, probably be subject to that evil. And remember time in hell is for the rest of eternity.

           Just as God gives free reign to our desires here on earth He will give the same freedom in the afterlife, but those in hell will be on their own, rejecting God and is all knowing wisdom as our creator. God will not be in hell to judge or enforce justice, He lets the avarice, murderous intent and malice in hell, allow its inhabitants take care of their punishment. So, the way those in hell create its punishment lie, for the most part, in the lack of compassion there.  It is clear to me that this excerpt from Romans is a blueprint for not only hell in the afterlife but also to create a hell here on Earth.

           But in heaven, these types of things will not be a problem because original sin will be removed as to our revealed desire to have it removed in living our lives committing to follow all of  God’s law (consenting to God’s will without reservation in all things) and thereby giving our consent to change us, to heal the wound of original sin, to allow us to once again use our intellect to do the right thing. Things like concupiscence will be permanently remove or otherwise suppressed by our reason and intellect. In Mark chapter 12 verses 24 and 25 he speaks of God using his power to make those that rise in the glory of heaven “as the angels in heaven.” In our life we must trust God in all things and believe all Jesus Christ and Christ’s church requires us to believe and make our will one with His to desire all He wants for us. God could not explain to our intellect, chained by original sin and lacking the sanctifying grace to “see him as he is” (1 John 3:2). We have to show by our life, striving with our whole being to say yes to what ever he wants for us by strictly following His commandments in love of Him, that we trust Him and “authorize Him” to remove original sin from our souls and to change us, unconditionally, according to His desire for His ultimate design for sanctified man and woman and the sanctified society of the human race in the mystical body of Jesus Christ to be able to grant us the ultimate happiness. We must “Trust the lord with your whole heart and do not lean on your understanding” (proverbs 3:5 )   “Have confidence in the Lord with all thy heart, and lean not upon thy own prudence.” (Proverbs 3:5 Douey-Rheims). For my thoughts are not your thoughts: nor your ways my ways, saith the Lord (Isaiah 55:8).

  • Salvation in the Church

    It is argued by many that the Catholic Church is the only way to salvation. “Is There Salvation Outside the Catholic Church” by Jean Vincent Bainville is one book by that examines this question.

    Publisher ‏ : ‎ CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform (September 30, 2011)

    Language ‏ : ‎ English

    Paperback ‏ : ‎ 72 pages

    ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1466389060

    ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1466389069

    Another book that examines this same subject by a Catholic bishop named George Hay of Scotland is “No Salvation Outside of the Catholic Church”

    Publisher ‏ : ‎ Aeterna Press (April 15, 2015)

    Language ‏ : ‎ English

    Paperback ‏ : ‎ 72 pages

    ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1785163655

    ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1785163654

  • LOVE, the Easter Message and Marriage

    Being that Easter week is when I’m actually writing this, among other things, I want to send a few notes about love and God’s love in particular. When I was younger my father always said he did not mind doing things for me and my mother and I thought he might have been exaggerating at least a little, until I became a dad.  The thing I did not understand is if you love somebody (as defined by Catholics 1 Corinthians 13:4-8) the thing that makes it great and why 1/3rd of the world practices the Christian philosophy and about half of that (1/6th of the world) practices the Catholic religion is because they found truth in why God came off his throne in heaven to help mankind.  The thing that makes love so satisfying, as I think I have mentioned before, is that it is not based on feelings or whether or not someone else loves you but that you can do things for them that they can either not do for themselves or would be extremely difficult to do by themselves.  Only Christ (the Uncreated) could make the just sacrifice to atone for mankind’s original sin and save us. Those who failed to let Him save them, by refusing to follow his commandments, would all be left in a world of their own, without being perfect (Matthew 5:48), doomed to torment each other in unspeakable ways because, minus sanctifying grace needed to repair their fallen nature, corruption would be inevitable (Romans 1:16-32).

     Since God does not force change on anyone, life is about showing God that we want exactly what he wants for us, to be changed as he wills to “become as angels” (Mark 12:25), by following his commandment and not committing mortal sins and if we fall into mortal sin, going to confession and being truly sorry and amending our lives to never do it again. If your point for “loving someone” is to get love in return, you do not truly love that person, you have feelings for them and “like” them, you do not actually love them.  You cannot control love as Christ knew on the cross (due to that whole thing  “He is God” and built the cosmos as it exists, if He did not actually design it, which, I assume, was God the Father did – John 1:1-14).  What makes it satisfying to someone that actually has the ability to love, is that you have total control over it, you love and can make life happy for the one loved.  That is why most divorced people are so unhappy they almost inevitably loose the ability to make their children and grandchildren happy, due to their hatred of their spouse, consuming their time and energy and their spending most of the time avoiding the other and not spending more time loving their (grand)kids.  Together they could spend twice the time with their children (since the children usually spend half their time with each parent.  At my parish parents are always visiting their children who are nuns at a convent, visiting their grandchildren and being visited by their sons who are priests.

    Like divorced people, many poor people blame someone else for their troubles. A classic example of someone I know who did not take this tack is Yevonne (not her real name).  Yevonne, born into a family financially challenged (because of the Korean War and I understand her family was quite well to do before the war), did not say, I could only afford to attend a vocational high school so can’t go to college and can only be an accountant.  She took control of her destiny and when the regulations changed, from college not requiring a regular high school to attend but to only requiring passing an entrance exam, she studied for it, together with some friends, and got accepted into a college.  She studied to be a high school Spanish teacher.  When she married a US service member, she had one year to go and said, if I remember correctly, if she did not return in a year she would need to start over, so her husband sent her back with her son (approximately 1 year old) to finish, which she did, still on scholarship no less. I think God blesses us all, with the opportunity to accomplish our dreams, if they are not evil, if we only look for opportunities, take them and not whine about what could have been, while doing something else easier, afraid to try to accomplish their dreams, and take those opportunities.  

    Some people in a relationship or just in a family setting feel just too disappointed and disillusioned in their situation to stay and fight.  Yevonne supported her parents and her 2 younger siblings when there was little hope of relief until she was 28, because she actually loved them, not a feeling – action. From what she told me her older sister, was too hopeless and disappointed in the family’s situation, just left and dropped that responsibility on her. Since, then as I understand, that sister divorced several times an terminated all her pregnancies and she rarely, if ever, smiles according to the story. Not doing right leaves one dead inside.

    This blame game goes all the way back to Adam and Eve.  Eve blamed the snake and Adam blamed Eve for their lust for knowledge to become equal to God by eating from the tree that would provide the knowledge of good and evil.  But God is God so He fore-knew but did not predestine.  So why did He not do something more to prevent this?  I surmised it is because to do more would have been to not have given humans true “free will” to choose. No snake to tempt, no knowledge of alternatives, in Adam and Eve’s good state upon creation (Genesis 1:26-31 which ends with: And God saw all the things He had made, and they were very good), no choice, no real free will. Mankind chose free will – more complete knowledge of the world and choices, as opposed to accepting God largesse of complete happiness with the condition of not going against God’s will and by extension being in some ways ignorant, mainly of evil. God gave mankind free will and men and women cannot blame anybody but themselves for not getting what they want or need in life to be happy especially here in the United States, the most exceptional country that has ever existed with regard to freedom!

    With married couples divorce and remarriage is bad (Luke 16:18). With regard to divorce/remarriage in the worst case, if children and grandchildren exist, it’s bad because they may become victims of sexual or even physical abuse above and beyond the bad example given. Separation can be necessitated by physical or sexual abuse to either the spouse or children, but those who do CANNOT (Luke 16:18, Matt 5:32) remarry.  The remarried parent should never leave a child or grandchild alone for any significant length of time with a significant other, one that is not the child’s biological parent and only if that parent is aware that they are the biological parent and is not psychologically unstable.  People separate, not mindful or selfishly not caring about the possible consequences, or it being not apparent like the link of having a boarder wall/policy to stop illegals from being sexually abused or from youngsters dying from fentanyl.

     Trust is, in my opinion, sometimes given way too easily in these cases of remarriage with children and why the majority of abuse cases exist in broken homes. People should not settle when it comes to a mate because marriage is not for convenience, companionship or pleasure it is for the rearing of children and raising them to be decent human beings capable of becoming citizens of heaven, but unfortunately, they must make the choice to become citizens of heaven (though they should be baptized, to have help in the decision, which really comes with the sacrament of confirmation, where upon having accepted God’s offer, really from baptism, they are strengthened by the Holy Ghost to stay firm in their conviction to be a citizen of heaven.  Just as we have no choice to be born into this world, we don’t need a choice to possibly go to heaven, knowing the likely alternative, based on Christs words in John 3:5, if we are not baptized.  A new born infant in the United States can be granted citizen ship in the US to the greatest country in the world without pledging allegiance, can an all good God be less generous with regard to being a citizen of the Kingdom of Heaven? ). When it comes to choosing a good husband or wife, or raising good children, knowledge alone does not make the difference but the example of a decent marriage, not only during rearing but for the rest of the children’s lives, until death do they part.  They must be the example of love and striving to do good toward and for the world, each other and the children themselves to succeed in raising children right.  

  • Review of the Animated Movie the King of Kings

    Review of the Animated Movie the King of Kings I think it was around passion Sunday that I watched the Animated feature film “The king of Kings: A Story Told by Charles Dickens” at a movie theater.  It was set in a Victorian house of a man telling his young son a story.  It switched from story telling to animated flashbacks to the life of Christ.  Details like the deaths of the Holy Innocents (Matthew 2:16) were handled delicately by Herod saying something like: go to Bethlehem and GET RID of all the all the children under 2 (my emphasis added). Some of the highlights I remember which I think they covered, in Christs life, other than his birth, was the finding in the temple, the clearing of the temple, multiplication of the loaves and the betrayal.  The gory details of the passion were also handled delicately to include the nailing to the cross which as I remember was seen at an angle where you could not actually see the nails being driven but hear them looking across Christs face.  The most notable and important part of this depiction of the salvation story is that they cut back to explain Adam and Eve and the original sins, without which, Christ’s death, and even his whole life, is essentially meaningless. As I remember, it of course ends with his resurrection on Easter. Basically, the salvation story in a nutshell!